IOZ unleashes some heavy bait. For what it's worth, I agree with him. Since any serious anarchism demands a rejection of coercion, a serious dude-anarchist needs to reject the coercive structures he is embedded in, foremost of which is usually* the patriarchy. This is why I keep saying that anarchism is primarily a personal matter, not a public matter; or that its public nature is merely a side-effect of its personal nature. Anarchism begins in the home, if you like.
* Exceptions can be made for prime ministers, presidents, and cops.